Is Having a Sibling a Blessing or a Curse?

I am sure that most of you have brothers or infants. And I am sure that this same thought must have occurred to you at one time or another. How many of you have lost your toys, apparel or any(prenominal)thing that you loved very much to your brother or babe? How many of you wish that you were the only child of the family? Welcome to the world of siblings. From the second our parents announce that there is to be a new baby in the family, we are expected to go through a lot of adjustments.The root and foremost is sharing. Sharing of our dear parents, our rooms, our toys, our favorite foods and so on. The second is comparison. The parents, teachers and sometimes even relatives start to compare the siblings. The comparison may be heeding our character, behavior, studies, colourise etc. The often repeated words in many houses is wherefore cant you be like your brother or sister? See how good they are. You should learn from them. The third is favoritism. Many parents have a favor ite child.It may be because they remind them of their favorite person, like their parents or siblings. Or maybe because that child loves them unconditionally. However, this causes the less loved child to regard the other as a rival. One of the favorite things our siblings like to do is to find out and tell our secrets to the very people we try to cover it secret from. They like to boast their own achievements and put down ours. But, not everything about having a sibling is bad. They are generally there for us when we need them.We can always depend on them when we are in some difficult situation. They sometimes save us from punishments and retributions, if they feel vicious for us. Of course they might need a bribe or some sort of favor after-wards. If your sibling is older than you, he/she would have surface the way for you in school, tuition and sports. If they are younger than you, you can and probably will boss them around and make them do what you want. There is a Chinese pr overb that translates as You dont realize the revalue of a thing until you lose it. All of you are doing your A levels near year. After that most of you will leave the country for higher studies. This way you will be alone, without your family in some unknown location for 4 or 5 years. And I am sure that even though you will miss your parents, you will miss your siblings more. You will miss the overlap space, shared confidence and secrets that united you. So I sincerely forecast that you will enjoy your blessings while you can and treat your siblings better.